Women have much more pressure to appear attractive due to society's
pressures on them. We don't need to worry about whether we are dressing
like a slut, or whether any man thinks what we're saying makes us look
silly. When compared to women, men should be more relaxed!
So when
you're thinking about a woman "Wow she's so beautiful and sexy", she is
probably thinking in her own head "Oh, I hope he doesn't think I'm too
fat compared to his last girlfriend".
Women are probably a lot more self-conscious than you. So, be easy!